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Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Grandma Passed away ~~ Rest In Peace

Grandma passed away on Monday 14/3/11  6.50 PM sharp . I was informed by my father when I came back home from tuition at 7.30 PM  .

I can still remember that day when I open the door ..The FIRST word came out of my father's mouth   was Grandma had passed away ... when I heard that , I don't know why  I ask again
'was it real or not' 
But that's too bad ,my father repeat the second time and then that's the moment I start to realized that it was not a joke but a FACT ><

I din't cry , maybe because I know that grandma finally can rest in peace and need to suffer no more ... but of course I'm sad ... but the first thing I do is to post a status that grandma had passed away in the FACEBOOK >< don't know why I do that XDXD

Mostly when CANTONESE passed away ,they put there for 3 days . So we  have to go back PERAK early because of grandma will be buried on Wednesday.
But this time , my Ah Ma don't want to follow us back ...she had her reason why.

The journey back to Perak started on the next day in the early morning after we packed everything .This time,the highway din't JAM .. we just took 3 hours then we already reached TELUK INTAN where's my grandma used to stay.

I saw many of my relatives there and many that I did not know . A large photo of my grandma  portrait was put infront of the wooden house and at the back of  it lies my grandma coffin .  After saying hello and all that SHIT to my relatives . I call my sister to acompany me and have a looked at grandma inside her coffin .

She was damned skinny inside there .. i nearly can't recognize her ... her face had completely changed

After that , it was a busy day for all of us untill night XD .. I helped to fold chinese GOLD and SILVER paper for Burning and burn Hell money for my grandma .

                      I also take a few pictures with my cousin when we are burning the money ><




                         Two of my cute and smallest cousin in the family..behind us was the MONEY




                                                       

                                                        Having fun with papers XDXD






                                             

                                    Here's the MONEY for the offering XD (Im sure it was enough)



We had a night in the Anson Hotel  that my father booked it online ...
In the next day , we wake up at 7 AM . Rush to eat breakfast and meet back at my grandma house
because grandma will be buried at 11 AM sharp just  beside my grandpa .

We tooked a bus that my uncle booked roughly at 9.30AM and straight go to the cemetary .
After everything was done and had grandma buried inside ,we then go back to the wooden house .

After my grandma passed away , the wooden house is sold to the nearby neighbours for
RM 13K .
So all of my uncles and aunties took whats left of it inside the house .
Mostly was photos of them when they are small , and I also get Rm50 from my grandma XD
I was very  happy ( maybe because that I was the one that burn hell money for her whole day long XD )
just joking XD all 17 of us cousin get Rm 50 , daughters get RM 500 and sons get what's left of we take ><

                                          And i also found my parents wedding photo



                                                                Here is it XD

After that we tooked a bath and went back home ..
I know this is the last time I step inside the wooden house that lies the history of my mother's family ..
I will let the best memory inside there always be in my mind ..
And goodbye grandma ..
shall we meet again in the AFTERLIFE
 Bye Bye

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